05 August 2009


Cue: Ne-Yo's "So Sick"

Okay, let's get right into it...I know the pic is a little harsh, but that's just how I feel right now.

Lately I've been hearing a LOT of BS (hey, my mom might read this lol) and I'm tired of it. I just wish I had a stamp with the word BULLSH*T on it, so I can just make a mark on the forehead of those that spew nonsense my way.

Now I'm sure I'm going to get a lot of grief for this, but I don't care....it needs to be heard! Guys shoot a LOT of BS on the daily! Yeah, I said it! Here are some of the key phrases I've heard lately:

~I've been busy

~I've been working

~I lost my phone that's why I haven't called you

~I have kids, or did you forget it was summer vacay? (yes, that's real)

All of this could be true, but it falls into the BS category because they were used as excuses for not responding to a text message! Those that know me know that I'm not big on texting, so I don't do the convos thru the phone like that. So that means I wasn't looking for a life story....only a response to a "hey how are you" message. Is that too much to ask? I didn't think so, so they can take that BS elsewhere!

I don't get what's so hard about being up front and honest. I can take it and still could be your friend later. I HATE being lied to and think that it's a cop-out when guys spit BS. Like seriously, we're adults, keep it real with me, because I KNOW I keep it real. This is why I surround myself with blunt friends. They keep me in line.

I saw this online and I really need to get this printed on a T-shirt and sport it at all times:

Cue: Jill Scott's "One is the Magic Number"

Sadly, I'm SO over guys right now....they are THE worst! In the mean time, I'm going to focus on me. I have some things that I'm working on, and will dive into them head first. If you feel the same way I do, I suggest that you use your energy for good and do something for yourself...or for someone else. I know I will be volunteering a lot in the next few months.


  1. Girl yes...it doesn't stop when they are with you either...they just get more creative because NOW something is more at stake. People suck, yo! But for real, I don't envy you and even though I am taken, it doesn't stop some unassuming souls trying to "holla" and spit the BS nonetheless...what makes it better is that they think it is believable. Wow.

  2. I like the tee shirt idea...size small, please. The BS don't change when they are older either...."Vets" still spit the same BS.

  3. Well you know I must always drop by for my two cents...BS is what it is. And instead of wasting time talking about it and wanting guys or girls to change (because they will not). Let it go. Count your blessings that they showed you their true colors early and cut your losses. You'll be so much happier this way. Trying to analyze the BS spectrium will only piss you off more. There is no logic behind it, people just do it to do it, thinking that you buying their foolishness. Instead of catering to it show them just how unimportant they are to you the same way they've pretty much been showing you that same disregard. And you should always focus on you. I don't mean be selfish or not take others into consideration, but focus on becoming a better person and God will steer someone worthwhile your way in due time.

    Hugs and Kisses Tee ~M~

  4. There's just meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee... man I'm listening to Jill now. So tru. People amaze me with the lies and dumb talk and there's no need for it you know? I could care less if a guy doesn't want to talk to me, just tell me that and keep it moving. Don't try to play the game and have me and 80 other women caught up in your web. I think I'm destined to be right by myself...not mad about it at all either.